How to Choose the Right Sex Doll? Find the Perfect Match

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When choosing a sex doll, various factors play a role, such as material, appearance, mobility and budget. In this article, you will discover what to look for in order to find a doll that suits your wishes and preferences. We will discuss the most important features, materials and personalization options, so that you can make a well-considered choice.

Material choice: TPE or silicone


When choosing a sex doll, the material is an important factor. Most sex dolls are made of TPE (thermoplastic elastomer) or silicone . Both materials have unique properties that affect the realistic experience:

  • TPE (flexible and soft)
    • Texture and feel: Very realistic, soft and flexible
    • Warmth feeling: Feels warmer and adapts more quickly to body temperature
    • Durability: More susceptible to wear and stains
    • Maintenance: Requires cleaning after each use and is more susceptible to stains
    • Details & Finish: Slightly less detailed, especially at body folds
    • Flexibility: Very flexible and mobile
    • Price: More affordable than silicone

  • Silicone (firm and detailed)
    • Texture and feel: Firmer, less flexible, and more realistic due to the finer skin structure
    • Heat Sensation: Feels colder unless preheated
    • Durability: More durable and more resistant to damage
    • Maintenance: Easier to keep clean and less maintenance required
    • Details & Finish: More realistic details such as skin folds and veins
    • Flexibility: Less flexible, retains its shape better
    • Price: 2 to 3 times more expensive to purchase


Which option suits you best?

The option that suits you best depends on your preferences. Choose TPE if you want a soft and flexible sex doll that feels natural. Go for silicone if you want a durable, firm love doll with realistic details like skin folds, veins, wrinkles and make-up.

Both materials provide a realistic experience , but the differences are in skin texture, flexibility and maintenance. Choose a sex doll torso for a cost-effective and realistic experience.

TPE sex doll and silicone sex doll next to each other

How to choose the right size?

You choose the right size by taking into account your personal preferences, physical strength and storage options. Sex dolls vary in size and weight, which affects the user experience and ease of movement.

At Monica Moments you can choose from different sizes:

  • Torso sex dolls: weigh between 6 kg and 24 kg.
  • Full-size sex dolls: weigh between 35 kg and 49 kg.

Larger erotic dolls offer a more realistic experience, including larger breasts and buttocks, but are heavier and harder to move. Weigh the pros and cons of light and heavy sex dolls using the comparison below:

  • Light sex doll
    • Weight and portability: Easy to lift and move
    • Storage & Discreet Use: More convenient to store, ideal for discreet use
    • Realistic feel: Less realistic feel
    • Stability: Feels less stable
    • Possible positions: Limited positions possible
    • physical exertion: Lighter, less effort required

  • Heavy sex doll
    • Weight and portability: More difficult to move
    • Storage & Discreet Use: Takes up more space, less discreet
    • Realistic Feel: More realistic weight and experience
    • Stability: More stability during use
    • Possible positions: Suitable for various positions
    • physical exertion: Requires more physical exertion


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Choose the right look

The appearance of a realistic sex doll plays a big role in finding your perfect match. Everyone has preferences, and there are countless options available. Pay attention to the following physical characteristics

  • Body Types (Body Shape). Choose between a slim, petite, athletic or curvy figure.
  • Face. From cute and playful to seductive and exotic – the facial expression and shape determine the look of your doll.
  • Hair. Available in long, short, straight or curly hair in red, blonde, black or brunette.
  • Skin tones. Available in a variety of shades, from porcelain white and caramel to a deep brown skin tone.
  • Breast type (cup size). Choose A cup breasts, natural breasts or a full cup size such as D.
  • Buttocks size. From a subtle curve to voluptuous, firm buttocks.

close up of asian silicone sex doll

Mobility and skeletal type

A high-quality sex doll has an internal skeleton that allows her to assume different positions. This skeleton determines not only the freedom of movement, but also how realistic the doll feels and responds to touch.

Modern sex dolls are equipped with high-tech metal skeletons with multiple points of articulation and joints. This allows them to bend, twist and assume positions that are close to human movements. The more advanced the skeleton, the smoother and more realistic the movements.

Not all sex dolls have the same degree of mobility. Some models are fully articulated, with a wide range of motion in the arms, legs and hips. This allows for a wide range of natural and challenging positions. Other dolls have a more rigid skeleton, which limits the range of motion.

Want maximum variation and the most realistic experience possible? Then choose an intimate doll with an advanced metal skeleton and multiple joints. This way you can enjoy a supple, flexible partner who follows your wishes perfectly.

Intimate features and sensations


Sex dolls are designed to provide the most realistic experience possible. They are equipped with different openings: vagina, anus and mouth , each with their own unique structure and depth.

Realistic textures for ultimate pleasure

The internal structures of these orifices are meticulously recreated to create an authentic feel. Vaginal canals feature ridges and textures that mimic natural shape and stimulation, while anal orifices feel tighter and offer extra resistance. Oral orifices often feature soft, flexible textures that mimic the sensation of a real mouth.

Depth and flexibility of the openings

When choosing a sex doll it is important to also look at the depth and flexibility of the openings. In general, most models have the following channels:

  • Vaginal: 15-18 cm
  • Anal: 17-20 cm
  • Oral: 1 0-12 cm

Some dolls have extra flexible materials, which allow openings such as the vagina and anus to better adapt to different movements and positions.

Heat function and realistic sensations

For an even more lifelike experience, there are models with an integrated heating system . This ensures that the skin and internal openings reach a natural body temperature, which significantly increases realism and comfort. It is also possible to purchase a separate USB heater if the doll does not have a built-in heat function.

By checking these features, you will choose a sex doll that perfectly matches your wishes and preferences, for an immersive and satisfying experience.

cross section of vagina and anus opening of a sex doll

User experience and purpose of the sex doll

When choosing the right sex doll, your level of experience plays a big role. Are you a beginner or do you already have experience with sex dolls? The choice between a simple or advanced model determines how pleasant and realistic the experience will be.

For beginners: simple and user-friendly models

If you are just starting out, it is wise to choose a lighter sex doll or a torso model with breasts. These are easier to handle, require less maintenance and are easier to store. In addition, basic models without an advanced skeleton are a good choice. They offer a pleasant first introduction without having to learn a complex system right away.

For advanced users: realism and flexibility

Do you already have experience with sex dolls? Then a full-size model with a flexible skeleton offers more possibilities. These dolls can be placed in different positions and feel much more lifelike thanks to their realistic joints. Additional features such as heating elements and movable joints take the experience to the next level, making the interaction even more realistic.

The purpose of the sex doll: what suits you?

Think carefully about the purpose of the sex doll. Some users choose a doll purely for solo use, while others see it as an addition to a relationship. The degree of realism also plays a role here: do you want a hyper-realistic experience with skin texture and heating, or do you prefer a simpler model? By determining this in advance, you will find the sex doll that best suits your needs.

Think about your budget

Sex dolls come in different price ranges depending on the type, materials and size. Before you make a choice, it is important to determine how much you want to spend.

Different price ranges

  • Sex Doll Torso: These compact models offer a realistic experience without the price of a full-size sex doll. Depending on size and details, they cost between €169 and €689.
  • Masturbators: Smaller, simpler alternatives to just the vagina or penis and buttocks, often with soft TPE materials and internal structures for extra stimulation. Prices range from €289 to €369.
  • Full size sex dolls: For the ultimate experience, there are lifelike, fully formed sex dolls with a metal skeleton and soft skin materials. Prices range from €995,- to €3695,- depending on the material and finish.

What is the difference between a masturbator and a sex doll torso?

A masturbator is a handy product of just the vagina or penis and buttocks that is specially designed for stimulation. A sex doll torso on the other hand offers a partial body, such as a (partial) upper body with breasts or lower body, which gives a more realistic feeling.

Price-quality ratio

When choosing a sex doll, the price-quality ratio plays a major role.

  • Budget models: Simple designs, often smaller and lighter or with fewer details, but still a realistic experience.
  • Premium Sex Dolls: High-quality workmanship, realistic skin textures and flexible joints for a better experience.
  • Hyper-realistic models: Made from ultra-soft silicone with lifelike details such as veins, skin texture and heating elements.

Want the ultimate experience? Check out our range of full size sex dolls for the most realistic options.

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