How to Use a Sex Doll in 8 Steps

Een sex doll gebruiken in 8 stappen

Using a sex doll is a satisfying experience, it is important to know how to use and maintain it properly. In this blog we will take you step by step through the process of preparing, using and maintaining a sex doll, so that you can enjoy your purchase to the fullest.

Summary of the steps in this article:

  • Step 1: Prepare for use
  • Step 2: Dry the sex doll completely
  • Step 3: Choose a safe and comfortable location
  • Step 4: Apply water-based lubricant
  • Step 5: Place the sex doll in the desired position
  • Step 6: Use the sex doll as desired
  • Step 7: Cleaning after use
  • Step 8: Store properly

Step 1: Prepare for use

Proper cleaning prevents wear and keeps the sex doll hygienic. Use the tips below:

  • Lukewarm water: Rinse the doll with water that is not too hot to prevent damage and effectively remove dirt and residue.
  • Mild soap: Use a skin-friendly soap without harsh chemicals. Avoid cleaning agents such as dishwashing detergent, which can damage the material.
  • Soft cloth or microfiber cloth: Gently clean the doll and openings with a non-scratch cloth. Avoid abrasive materials such as scouring pads.
  • Avoid aggressive cleaning agents: Do not use products containing alcohol, solvents or strong chemicals as these may weaken the material.

A sex doll is cleaned with lukewarm water and mild antibacterial soap

Step 2: Dry the sex doll completely

After cleaning, dry the sex doll thoroughly. Use a soft, lint-free cloth to remove moisture. This prevents fibers or lint from remaining on the doll's skin, which would disrupt the experience. Make sure the cloth is large enough to dry the entire surface of the doll.

Start with the most moist areas and work your way systematically to the rest of the body. Pat gently and avoid rough rubbing, to avoid damaging the material. It is important to dry all body parts thoroughly, including the inside of the doll, if possible. This will not only help prevent mold and odor, but will also extend the life of your erotic doll by 1-2 years.

A sex doll is gently patted dry with a soft towel

Step 3: Choose a safe and comfortable location

Place your doll on the right surface for the best experience. Choose a soft, lint-free surface such as a satin sheet or pillow. This is included as standard with your order. This prevents damage to the doll and ensures that the materials remain in good condition. Avoid hard surfaces, as these increase the risk of damage.

A sex doll lies on a bed with a soft base for safe use

Step 4: Apply water-based lubricant

When using a sex doll, always apply lubricant for a smooth and comfortable experience. Apply 10 ml to the sensitive parts of the doll and spread it evenly. This ensures that the doll moves smoothly during use and prevents the materials from being damaged by friction.

Always use water-based lubricants, as this is the safest and most suitable type for sex dolls. Oil- or silicone-based lubricants are harmful to the materials of the doll, causing them to wear out faster or even break. Water-based lubricants are also easy to clean, which simplifies maintenance processes.

Use Monica Moments lubricant, specially developed for dolls and toys. Our Doll & toy lube provides lubrication and is safe for your doll.

By making the right choice, you extend the lifespan by 1-2 years and increase your comfort during use.

A sex doll is treated with water-based lubricant for safe use

Step 5: Place the sex doll in the desired position


Hold the sex doll in the correct way to ensure both the doll and you safety. Follow these steps to place the doll in the desired position without causing damage to the joints or the material of the doll.

  • Hold the doll firmly in the right places
    Lift the sex doll with both hands and hold her firmly by the stronger parts of the body, such as the hips, waist, back or stomach. Avoid lifting the doll only by the joints (such as the wrists, shoulders or ankles), as this puts extra pressure on the joints, leading to damage.

  • Lift the doll slowly and in a controlled manner
    Always lift the doll slowly, straight and in a controlled manner. Avoid dragging, pulling or rapid movements that overload the joints or damage the doll.

  • Place the doll in the desired position
    Put the sex doll in the desired position and do not place her in extreme positions to prevent overload on the joints. Dolls have a flexible wire structure in the hands and feet, but these break if they are twisted too far.

  • Please note the joint restrictions
    Sex dolls are designed to be placed in a variety of positions, but each doll has joint limitations. Always check the doll's manual for directions on the range of motion of the joints.

  • Avoid overloading the joints
    Regularly adjusting the posture helps prevent damage to the joints. If you notice that the doll is having trouble standing, it is important to reconsider how you are using her and not to overload the joints.

By following these tips, you will ensure that your sex doll is positioned in the desired position in a safe and sustainable manner, thereby extending the life of the doll by 1-2 years.

A user carefully places a sex doll in a desired position

Step 6: Use the sex doll as desired

When using a sex doll it is important to ensure comfort and safety. Here are some guidelines to use the sex doll in a safe and comfortable way.

Provide a comfortable environment

Make sure you have a suitable and comfortable space where you use the doll. A firm surface, such as a bed or mattress, is ideal. This will provide stability and prevent damage to the doll or discomfort to you during use. Always be careful with the sex doll. Treat the doll with care and respect to protect both the doll and yourself. Avoid excessive force, as this will cause damage to the doll.

Use water-based lubricant as this is the best choice for most sex dolls. Lubricant reduces friction, increases comfort and prevents damage to the doll. Apply 10 ml to intimate areas such as vagina and anus for a smoother experience.

A sex doll dressed in lingerie on a white background

Step 7: Cleaning after use

After using your sex doll, clean her thoroughly for both hygiene and long-term preservation. Here is a step-by-step guide to properly clean your doll:

  • First remove any accessories
    If you have used any accessories, such as a vagina or anal insert, remove them from the doll first.

  • Rinse with lukewarm water
    Start by rinsing the doll with lukewarm water between 35°C and 40°C to prevent damage to the material.

  • Use a mild soap
    Use a mild, pH neutral soap (pH value between 5 and 7) without harsh chemicals.

  • Sponge, cloth or brush?
    Use a soft sponge, microfiber cloth or soft brush to gently clean the doll. Clean the doll with special attention to the intimate areas and be careful around the eyes, ears or other sensitive areas.

  • Rinse thoroughly
    Then rinse the doll thoroughly with lukewarm water to remove all soap residue.

  • Drying
    Gently pat the doll dry with a clean cloth. Avoid using a hairdryer as intense heat (over 30 degrees) will quickly and irreversibly damage the doll. After drying, let the doll air dry completely in a clean, dry place. This will prevent mold or mildew from forming.

  • Powder with talcum powder
    Apply talcum powder after the doll is completely dry. This will help maintain texture and also prevent it from feeling sticky and dust from sticking to the doll.

A sex doll is cleaned with a soft sponge and antibacterial soap

Step 8: Store properly

Always store your doll in a cool and dry place to prevent damage to the material and to keep your doll in good condition. Ideally the temperature is between 5°C and 25°C .

Avoid damp areas such as bathrooms or basements, as these can cause mold and discoloration. Choose a storage box, wardrobe or special hanger to keep the doll protected. Also make sure it is not in direct sunlight , as UV rays will damage the material.

A sex doll is stored in a case for long-term protection

The most comfortable positions for a sex doll

Some positions are more realistic and comfortable than others, depending on the flexibility of your sex doll. In general, positions where the doll experiences less bending or extreme pressure points are best. Missionary is a popular choice, as the doll lies in a natural position without unnecessary stress on the joints.

Doggy style also works well, especially if the doll has firm support. Additionally, an adjustable bed or a soft surface, such as a mattress or thick blanket, enhances the experience by providing extra cushioning and stability. This helps to position the doll better and prevents unnecessary wear and tear on the joints .

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